Tuesday, September 1, 2015

Boners - Indicative of...

Welcome to September. We are on our way to Fall, cooler weather, and...ugh, clothes - those necessary things to protect our things from the elements.
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One wonders when it became something more insidious...why hiding the body is tantamount to proper, moral behavior.
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I think it's because the natural functioning was not understood. Women needed to clothe themselves because their nude bodies were thought to be too much of a temptation to men, who from appearances could not control themselves...
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Actually they couldn't, but the likely reason for the boner had absolutely nothing to do with sexual arousal.
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So, then it became necessary for men to hide for fear of those boners developing and being misunderstood, misinterpreted. One wonders if men's fear of being naked together is really borne of that same misinformation - which seems to get perpetuated. My gosh, if we can't be comfortable with the opposite sex, we should at least be able to be in a locker room, or with friends without concern over the occasional semi-hard on
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or the guy at the next urinal taking a quick look
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which is a perfectly innocent curiosity, btw
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We shouldn't have to be afraid of a semi- or full-on log being mistaken for something it's not
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When, really, those things should be celebrated, applauded
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because it means your body is functioning exactly as nature intended.
What do you think? Is every erection (your own or others) about sexual arousal?

Monday, August 31, 2015

The Road to Better Enjoyment

We had just finished watching I Am Cait (which we're enjoying and find fascinating) and I had taken a piss break.
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I came back in the middle of the conversation for the opening scene of Stewart's and Hamilton's or Hamilton's and Stewart's or whatever their reality show is titled (*sigh* there's just way too much air time to fill - that's my opinion, anyway).
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So, some of the gang are in an SUV headed to dinner I guess, and Dean says, "Guys wake up with boners every morning."
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One of the women (I can't keep them straight) pipes up from the back seat, interrupting him, "I don't want to hear or know about those things!"
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(Big, long, heavy sigh.) ... I think we should talk about cocks and boners and balls more often - and not just amongst us guys.
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It makes me truly appreciate the Ladies who frequent this blog. Especially ones like CJ, who still stops by once in a while, and Jean, who contributes much to the conversations here. What we men have and how it all functions and why things work the way they do is important information.
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Baseline facts are what help us determine if an issue is serious enough to seek medical attention - before it's too late. We joke that these are our prized possessions,
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Why not learn all you can about them? It's the road to better enjoyment of them.




Friday, August 28, 2015

Balls, Glorious Balls

Balls? Already? You're wondering if I've gotten lost in the calendar. No, I have been asked by a Faithful Reader, via email, about Testicle Massage.
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He follows a Tumblr which regularly espouses the benefits of ball massage with this repeated message: Explore testicle massage. It increases your testosterone levels. It makes you more horny and you cum more. It’s easy.”
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While I can understand the basis of the belief because massaging any portion of the body increases blood flow, I cannot find any concrete medical evidence that massaging one's nuts promotes the production of Testosterone. It is produced while we sleep, which is why a blood test to determine our levels is always done as soon as possible after we wake.
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As for the horny part - well, duh! In a poll by a women's magazine a number of years ago asked men what they wished the ladies would do more of during sex. The overwhelming response was, "Play with my balls." So, it makes sense that massaging your man-berries would increase your level of arousal.
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More cum? Well, now, the longer we play, the more aroused we are for that extended time, the more fluids get produced to build a gathering storm. So, that part makes perfect sense as well. Sort of like the get hard-play-stop for a while-repeat that we discussed earlier in the week. (BTW, if you'd like a perfect example of that, go read the comment Faithful Reader Fullmoonma left yesterday.)
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But the moral of the statement is that ball massage feels good. Go ahead, you've got an entire weekend to enjoy yourselves.

Thursday, August 27, 2015

Edging or Gooning

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Your French Patrick, friend and Faithful Reader, asks if I had addressed "edging" - if perhaps he'd missed it somewhere in yesterday's post. I've posted about it before, but it bears repeating.
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Edging is not the same as keeping your cock hard for continual, mindless play.
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It isn't, as some people believe, deliberately halting before an ejaculation, allowing the boner to wilt,
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and returning to sexual activity hours later.
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That is purposely delaying (avoiding) the orgasm which, as Faithful Reader, the beautiful Mistress Maddie indicates, can lead to an explosive, voluminous ejaculation.
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Edging takes mindful concentration because it is bringing yourself to, and remaining right on the edge of the "point of no return," with continued constant cock stimulation. Some guys refer to it as "gooning," because they are so lost in the pleasure that they are no longer aware of anything but the heightened sensations.
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While women can edge, too, being capable of multiple orgasm I don't know why they would want to edge. While some ladies would love to be able to cum easier, I think a lot of guys would love to achieve the multiple orgasm.
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Go ahead, give it a try. If you succeed in remaining on the verge of cumming for a lengthened period of time, 
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the eventual explosion should result in a larger, more forceful than normal geyser.
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