Friday, October 20, 2017

I'm At a Loss

Questions seem to come in spurts. Most I can answer with confidence, particularly if it's a subject I can research before offering some type of advice. This time, well... I'm at a loss.

"I've asked other bloggers and even asked Savage. I've gotten no response but after stumbling across your blog and doing a bit of surfing through it seems like you answer everything that gets thrown at you.

We were sitting as a family watching a tv show that included a sex scene with two guys. It didn't really show anything but it had an obvious effect on our son. I mean, a serious log snaked down a pantleg. He did his best to discreetly adjust but that's actually what caused us to notice.

Now we don't care if he's gay or not we just want him to be happy and well adjusted. How do we handle this? Do I just come out and ask him if he's gay?"
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Well, the boner doesn't mean he's gay. At his age, all guys are super-charged with hormones and pretty much any sex scene could cause a hard-on. Hell, I'm sure you remember at that age your cock didn't need any reason to pop wood. Without notice, wham!
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There it is: Hard as a tree limb. And, damned uncomfortable if crammed into pants.

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But do you ask him if he's gay? I don't know. I've got zero experience with this. My inclination is to say, "No. Let him come to you." But, at the same time, he'll need your support, to know you love him and don't care if he's into cock.
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Thursday, October 19, 2017

11 Million Men

Our cocks can get us into trouble.... Some startling new numbers are emerging in the HPV-related cancers. Approximately 3 million women have now been diagnosed with cervical cancers linked to HPV.
And - here's the kicker: 11 million men have been diagnosed with neck, mouth, and throat cancers which have been also been linked to the virus.
This is a virus which can linger, without symptoms for decades. It can be transferred by kissing. It can be shared through oral sex.
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It's believed that cases showing up now are due to the rise in oral sex during the 80s and 90s. As I've written before (Whip It Out), rinsing the mouth with Listerine - the mouthwash that kills 99.9% of bacteria - immediately after can help.
Photo Credit - The Lady Looks Up
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But, this can be avoided for the generation now coming to maturity. For a number of years now, Gardisil has been recommended for girls. In the last two or three years, there has been a push for boys to be vaccinated as well. These latest numbers prove the need for it. Folks, if you have sons - get them vaccinated.
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'Cause it doesn't matter if your sons are deep kissing, eating pussy, or sucking cock,
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the HPV virus can get them.

Wednesday, October 18, 2017

Increase the Satisfaction

"As you and your readers know, my sons and I talk very openly about sex and jerking off. Since the oldest one reads and comments once in a while he'll back me up on this. He mentioned once that he and his buddies were into contests to see who could cum first and shoot the farthest. I suggested they stop doing that and switch to who could hold off the longest for exactly the reasons you're stating."
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Ah, yes... In our youth, we guys who did jack off with our buddies, those were the games we played. Interestingly enough, the one who can hold out the longest is the one who's cum rockets out the farthest. The resultant orgasm finds stronger spasms, and more of them. Of course, volume will also depend on how long it's been since the last ejaculation.






But, when we're young we also manage to cum pretty often without a problem.
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Learning to control when you cum will increase the satisfaction of your experiences.

Tuesday, October 17, 2017

Sexual Communication

Like with any other task accomplished with another person, as Jean pointed out, communication is important. Being able to open up verbally to a partner is key to mutual pleasure and ultimate satisfaction.

If you have difficulty in communicating, there are ways to learn. I know I've mentioned this before, and fullmoonma left several comments on yesterday's post about this: Body Electric seminars are designed to do just that; help you express what feels good, what you want to experience in the moment; to ask a partner for what you'd like them to do.



Tantric Massage is another place to learn the skill of sexual communication. Tantric Massuers are trained to help you learn to express what you're feeling and learn control over your body.

The more control you command over your response, the longer you can make a singular sexual romp last. Whether that's alone or with a partner.